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The only way out is through” (Robert Frost) So don’t give up, you’re almost there. It takes as long as it takes.

If you are going through Hell Keep going. 

Life is It’s not a panacea of perfect days or a bed of roses.

The waters can be rough and we get tumbled and scratched by thorns picking roses or blackberries, trying to taste the sweetness of the moment and days gone by.

If you have ever struggled with anxiety, depression, or any array of mental health dis-eases, an injury or medical condition; rest assured you are not alone.  Covid can heighten and illuminate your struggles with any one of the above, in these surreal times.

If you’re going through hell keep going and reach out to someone to support you.

When life hands you lemons and believe you me, it will; Are you going to pucker up butter cup and give me a kiss (better not in Covid or I might push you.. ha) or are you going to make the most of it? Just add some agave or jaggery, a substitute I recently heard about. Stevia will do and yes, sugar is ok too, and make the most of it. A little sweetness always helps in a bad patch unless you’re a sugar addict of course.

Pucker Up, Buttercup Art Print

If you have ever stubbed your toe or baby finger then you know exactly what I mean.  You never knew a tiny toe could give you so much pain until you stub it.  Or have you ever slept in bed with a mosquito?  

Worse yet, have you suffered a major surgery or gone through an accident or perhaps the worst depression you have ever gone through in your life?

Everyone’s hell is their own and yet everyone wants to compare there’s with their friends and some might not even understand how this could be so bad.  Others feel guilty for it seemingly being so small of an issue and yet, it is putting them through so much purgatory; it’s their truth.  

Hell is Hell ok, and it doesn’t matter what anyone else is going through.

This is precisely why I believe in heaven on earth or hell on earth.  

There is no there. The devil is standing at your door and it’s up to you if you open it or not. If you choose to, take it’s little horns and embrace them and give it a name so you can let go of this little or big devil.

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What you say to yourself matters.

Beating yourself up for having the feelings will keep them omniopressant.

So what to Do, when the devil is knocking on your door?

  1. Give it a face so you can look it in the eye and tell it to leave
    and take your power back.

2. Lock it up and tell it you are sick and tired of this place.

3. Call someone and have a little chat.

4. Go for a walk and bring a leash and you can walk it right out of you or with it at your side. Soon you’ll make peace with this annoying monster. After all, the devil you know is better than the devil you don’t know.

5. Drown the bastard!!! Just blame it on the devil. Hey, the devil made you do it.

This will end and  it is up to you to take good care of yourself daily and ride it out.  Nothing lasts forever.


The best thing I have found when I’m going through hell is to: 

  1. Stop beating myself up.
  2. Do affirmations in the morning and evening everyday.
  3. Trust the process.
  4. Love yourself no matter what.
  5. Get support and reach out!

Hell!!!! It with come and it will go but heaven is a place I want to spend more time, what about you? So make sure you  are with people that can remind you “this too shall pass” encourage you and love you through it.

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Please remember that we all go through these same hellish times and you are not alone. Thanks so much for reading. I know this is a tough time for people and I truly empathize.

Please remember to like (if you do of course), comment and or share. I truly appreciate your support.

With so much ❤️ and Support Always,

Cindy

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Lisa Mae
1 year ago

“Hell is Hell ok, and it doesn’t matter what anyone else is going through.” Truth in one sentence! ❤️

Lisa Mae
Reply to  Cindy Georgakas
1 year ago

I have and am happy to be on to better days with more ahead!
Of course, I had a good cry last night, but you’ll have that!
XO

mindbeautysimplicity
Reply to  Lisa Mae
11 months ago

Loved that sentence too!

JohnRH
1 year ago

I love the lips and lemon art. The Rolling Stones would be jealous: https://www.google.com/search?client=firefox-b-1-d&q=rolling+stones+lips+logo

mindbeautysimplicity
Reply to  JohnRH
11 months ago

Loved this post!

Nawazish
1 year ago

Wow! That’s quite a interesting piece. So well presented and those small antidotes are love!❤❤

radhikasreflection
1 year ago

Well said Cindy. Well all have our good, bad and turbulent phases. But one should always believe that, ” it shall pass too as nothing is permanent”. There is always light at the end of the tunnel. Take care ♥️

Ingrid
1 year ago

I try to do everything on your list when I’m going through hell too – it’s not always easy but it will always pass 🙏

Rishika Jain
1 year ago

Thank you for this message, Cindy❤

Rishika Jain
Reply to  Cindy Georgakas
1 year ago

🤗❤

inerro.land
1 year ago

There is not Heaven without Hell, we just have to go up 😃

inerro.land
Reply to  Cindy Georgakas
1 year ago

Thanks, and you too Cindy! ❤️

Thegirlwithapuzzledmind
1 year ago

Thats what I do, I leave everything and go for a walk. It always calms down the devil me.
Intresting post.

Thegirlwithapuzzledmind
Reply to  Cindy Georgakas
1 year ago

My pleasure Cindy. You too have a great week ahead. 💜

Lisa at Micro of the Macro
1 year ago

Great, relevant post, Cindy. The worst, prolonged hell I ever lived through turned out to be the biggest blessing of my life! Here’s to hell’s lessons! 🌞

Lisa at Micro of the Macro
Reply to  Cindy Georgakas
1 year ago

Of course! I wrote about it briefly in my blog post “Escaping Normal.” Would love for you to read it! 🌞

Lisa at Micro of the Macro
Reply to  Cindy Georgakas
1 year ago

Huh, odd! I have problems with WP regularly. Thanks for the kind words, Cindy. Here it is: https://microofthemacro.com/2020/05/22/escaping-normal/

Lisa at Micro of the Macro
Reply to  Cindy Georgakas
1 year ago

Will do, and thanks so much, Cindy! 🌞

Lisa at Micro of the Macro
Reply to  Cindy Georgakas
1 year ago

I saw that you gave me a lot of likes, thank you dear girl! If you commented, I either responded or liked the comment. I think you said you commented on Escaping Normal, but I did not see that. Just checked my spam folder. Nothing’s there.

Lisa at Micro of the Macro
Reply to  Cindy Georgakas
1 year ago

??? 🌞

Kumar Harsh
1 year ago

This post was so needed Cindy. Good days are excellent but they are overshadowed even when a day of bad comes. It takes a lot of courage to see that a good day will come. Patience is a virtue in times like these. Everyone struggles on their own and in their own way. Not everyone might know what one had struggled through even when they kept a straight face through all the hardships. A dear friend, maybe a parent, a sibling or someone other than them really help if one can becomes comfortable talking to them. Dogs or animals for that matter help so much. They’ll understand that we are going through a bad time and stick with us in their own annoying way. Haha. Loved the post Cindy. Thank you for sharing. 😇

Kumar Harsh
Reply to  Cindy Georgakas
1 year ago

😇

inspirechief
1 year ago

Cindy, thank you for your wonderful post. Life ain’t all sunshine and rainbows. Your 5 tips are excellent to get us through the rough times. I hope all is well with you. Take care.

Era
Era
1 year ago

It’s an wonderful post, Cindy
So very well written 💙

Era
Era
Reply to  Cindy Georgakas
1 year ago

Pleasure is all mine 💙

Nathi
1 year ago

Such profound and a powerful message — “Hell is Hell ok, and it doesn’t matter what anyone else is going through.”

Nathi
Reply to  Cindy Georgakas
1 year ago

Always my pleasure 😇

Ladysag77
1 year ago

This post had me laughing out loud many times Cindy😆 I’ve always loved that Robert Frost quote and find it to be 100% the way forward is through…not around, over, under or avoidance. It’s best done straight on and through. I literally have this sentence in my resume, “When life gives me lemons I know how to make the best lemonade” I’ve had that in there for years and it always breaks the ice with whomever is interviewing me🤗 Great post Cindy, so much love sister❤❤❤

Ladysag77
Reply to  Cindy Georgakas
1 year ago

You got it❤ btw….I wrote 2 posts on my experience and they’re up on my blog🤗 not sure if you saw them….I know WordPress can be glitchy 😆

Ladysag77
Reply to  Cindy Georgakas
1 year ago

I just checked because I knew I didn’t miss any notifications or comments. Your comments aren’t there on either post my dear which is why I asked you….Hmmmmm🤔

Ladysag77
Reply to  Cindy Georgakas
1 year ago

WordPress is so weird sometimes 😕

Ladysag77
Reply to  Cindy Georgakas
1 year ago

I know it does, take your time my love❤

Ladysag77
Reply to  Cindy Georgakas
1 year ago

Yes, I got it🙏

gulfcoastpoet@gmail.com
1 year ago

Very helpful post, Cindy. I think all the negatives are causing me insomnia. We all hope for better times! I need to take that walking suggestion to heart. I was happy to read in the comments that you are OK. Every time I hear about the wildfires, I wonder how you are. Stay safe. <3 Cheryl

Yernasia Quorelios
Yernasia Quorelios
1 year ago

♡ This is Extreme Prejudice; it’s Crystal Clear Clarity that I Love “Hell” as I Love MySelf, EveryOne and EveryThing, I Find Heaven more than just a Bit Boring with ALL Those Rules, Regulations and What Not 😂🤣😅😆😁😄😃😀🙂

…♡♡♡…

Yernasia Quorelios
Yernasia Quorelios
Reply to  Cindy Georgakas
1 year ago

ON FAIR ENERGETIC EXCHANGE

◇ – Diamond Hard – ◇

◇ ARE Our PsychoDynamics, InterActions with Others A Cumbersome Burden or A Welcome Relief; does it Matter, the Either/Or 🤔 ?…for Me, Personally, it’s ALL About Looking to My Experience and Being Equitable rather than Equality that means Tit-For-Tat; if I AM Resentful I AM OverCareTaking and if I AM Greedy I Get My Just Desserts…there ARE those things Others Do Better than I Do and vice versa; so, as a Divorced Boy, I Now Accept SHE!!! Expected Far Too Much of Me…ergo, I Dodged a Bullet in a Very Painful Way that is a Lot Less Pain, Death Even, than if I Had Capitulated to HER!!! Demands then Strayed But A Little; so now, I Wait and My Soul Spouse WILL!!! Announce HerSelf and We WILL!!! Enter in to an Equitable and Respectful, Romantic Relationship via Soulful Connection, Our Psychological Synchronisity especially when in DisAgreement and Sexual Compatibility

nisi mortuus nec neque nolite vicit 🤭🤫🤐

◇ – Diamond Hard – ◇

…◇◇◇…

A.
A.
1 year ago

Perfect post 😊

Prince of Vibez
1 year ago

Ah well this post’s really cool cindy… surely it will influence a lot….

Rishika Kakar
1 year ago

I love your pieces, Cindy. Always so inspirational! There’s hope for all of us. Thank you for writing this. ❤️❤️❤️

Jackjones
1 year ago

Fantastic post, very thought provoking and interesting

Jackjones
Reply to  Cindy Georgakas
1 year ago

❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

Unlocking The Hidden Me
1 year ago

That’s a lovely post Cindy❤️ Thanks as always for sharing your beautiful thoughts🙂. Going through bad times, what my way out to peace is “God” . I just leave it to The Almighty that whatever is happening, is for a reason Of course and I believe the reason and purpose to be always good. And this belief actually keeps you moving. 😊
Take care
‘Samreen’

Unlocking The Hidden Me
Reply to  Cindy Georgakas
1 year ago

Pleasure always Cindy ❤️
To you too as well😊

Curt Mekemson
1 year ago

I had a dream last night where I ran into the Devil, Cindy. So here you are with a post.The devil said, “Oh no not you!” Apparently I scared the heck out of him. 🙂 –Curt

K E Garland
1 year ago

Perfect advice Cindy! I love this part, too: “better not in Covid or I might push you” lol

marlene ford gf Sesse
marlene ford gf Sesse
1 year ago

Thanks Cindy for sharing another insightful post . It is definitely True we go through hell on earth from time to time. Thank God it passes and we also have some blissful days (heaven on earth) .
It is all a learning experience here on earth school. . I am grateful that I am still here to learn from the good the bad and the ugly . All excellent teachers. .
Stay well and safe and keep sharing your inspirational wisdom 🥰🧘‍♀️

rothpoetry
1 year ago

You are right about this… everyone is going to go through some kind of major hit at some time in their life! I have been there and done that already. Your post reminds me of the country song, “If you’re going through hell keep on moving…”
Great advice. Very hard to do when in the middle of it all!
Dwight

rothpoetry
Reply to  Cindy Georgakas
1 year ago

This is the Youtube clip: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=l50L4GYhpLc

rothpoetry
Reply to  Cindy Georgakas
1 year ago

Knock yourself out. You can go back and edit it into your post!

rothpoetry
Reply to  Cindy Georgakas
1 year ago

Ha Ha! this made me smile really big!

rothpoetry
Reply to  Cindy Georgakas
1 year ago

:>)

PoojaG
1 year ago

Really great post! Affirmations are honestly so helpful!

ESTATE UN RATO
1 year ago

Thanks for the tips.
Tony

Beck
1 year ago

I couldn’t agree more! It’s what we make of it… I try to create as much heaven as possible but I find I’m far better at creating a lot of hell! 😉 I’m trying to work on that… 😂

D. Wallace Peach
1 year ago

Lot’s of wisdom in this pep talk, Cindy, and delivered with a helping of humor. 🙂 This is a really hard time and your statement that “What you say to yourself matters” is profoundly true. Great list of things to do to maintain balance and keep stress at bay. 😀

Saniya
1 year ago

Such an attractive piece😍💯
Thanks for sharing😊

Muralikrish
1 year ago

Wow..lovely post, Cindy. Thanks for sharing your thoughts.

johncoyote
1 year ago

Reblogged this on johncoyote and commented:
Wonderful and needed words. I liked every one.

johncoyote
Reply to  Cindy Georgakas
1 year ago

You are welcome dear Cindy.

johncoyote
1 year ago

I loved these words and thoughts. This is outstanding and needs to be read by more people. Thank you for sharing.

johncoyote
Reply to  Cindy Georgakas
1 year ago

Needed words dear Cindy. We must try to out-run the devil.

Vinx
1 year ago

I like the way you pen things

Gibberish
1 year ago

‘This too shall pass’…this is the one life mantra I swear by during those hell on earth phases…which come way too often for me…nice to know it helps you too🤗

cheriewhite
1 year ago

Awesome post! Affirmations have gotten me through the worst of times!

cheriewhite
Reply to  Cindy Georgakas
1 year ago

You’re very welcome, Cindy. Blessings to you!

jonicaggiano
1 year ago

Great advice my friend. Yes we all have those lemon days for sure. Some great tips on how to get through them. Thank you. Sending love ❤️ and hugs 🤗 Joni

Joel Abakah
1 year ago

Incredible words of wisdom I should say. Truly we all go through hell and trying to shove it off as if it’s non existent really solves nothing. Hence trying to seek ways to get past it and improve our condition.
I loved the homour you added… made the post light and fun.
Still holding on to “this too shall pass”. It’s like my light at the end of the tunnel💚❤

Joel Abakah
Reply to  Cindy Georgakas
1 year ago

Thank you, Cindy.
It was an amazing post by you. I’m the lucky one for reading it!😊💚

Joel Abakah
1 year ago

Anyways, I follow you but it seems I’m unable to receive notifications of your post. I’ve checked and it seems there’s nothing wrong but I still can’t receive them. Only way you come into mind is when I see your comments on other people’s posts. If you could help me fix it please do.

Joel Abakah
Reply to  Cindy Georgakas
1 year ago

You’re not in my spam.
I don’t know why WP does this. I’ve been having trouble receiving notifications from you and some other bloggers I follow. It sucks!
I don’t know how to fix it💔

Joel Abakah
Reply to  Cindy Georgakas
1 year ago

I guess it is what is. WP breaking my heart💔

Law, life, etc
1 year ago

That’s life…I think how we’re able to deal with whatever is presented before is important!

Law, life, etc
Reply to  Cindy Georgakas
1 year ago

Pleasure! Take care ❤

Law, life, etc
1 year ago

That’s life…I think how we’re able to deal with whatever is presented before us is important.

akshita bansal
1 year ago

Exactly, learn to deal with whatever comes your way..!👊

Quite a lovely read, cindy..!🤗🤗💕

akshita bansal
Reply to  Cindy Georgakas
1 year ago

My pleasure cindy🤗🤗❤

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1 year ago

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thereluctantpoet
1 year ago

Reblogged this on The Reluctant Poet.

thereluctantpoet
Reply to  Cindy Georgakas
1 year ago

Always a pleasure to read and share your posts with followers, My Dear! So far so good! Hope you are well too!
xoxo
😘💕🌹

thereluctantpoet
Reply to  Cindy Georgakas
1 year ago

One of the best blessings of all – meeting a new day, isn’t it, Cindy??
xoxo
😘💕🌹😁

Navin
1 year ago

Very well written, Cindy…it’s crazy relatable…I’ve my share of heaven & hell…both exist within me…created by me…could be due to my sickness, circumstances…though, I’m a strong believer of whatever happens, it happens for a reason…even hell is a good teacher…mentor…telling me to act/react differently…sometimes I can…sometimes, I can’t….does it makes any sense?….thanks for a lovely sharing.

Navin
Reply to  Cindy Georgakas
1 year ago

You’ve so much power in your words….I could already sense from the energy….somehow….now this is stuck in my head….”But hey, we can’t know heaven unless we’ve been to hell right?!” ✨

Navin
Reply to  Cindy Georgakas
1 year ago

You’re welcome, Cindy. Heaven surely feels better….though the path to it is through pain of different grades ❤️✨

Navin
Reply to  Cindy Georgakas
1 year ago

Thank you Cindy & same to you ❤️✨

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