If You’re Going Through Hell 👹🔥 Keep Going ðŸ”¥ðŸ‘¹!

The only way out is through” (Robert Frost) So don’t give up, you’re almost there. It takes as long as it takes.

If you are going through Hell Keep going. 

Life is It’s not a panacea of perfect days or a bed of roses.

The waters can be rough and we get tumbled and scratched by thorns picking roses or blackberries, trying to taste the sweetness of the moment and days gone by.

If you have ever struggled with anxiety, depression, or any array of mental health dis-eases, an injury or medical condition; rest assured you are not alone.  Covid can heighten and illuminate your struggles with any one of the above, in these surreal times.

If you’re going through hell keep going and reach out to someone to support you.

When life hands you lemons and believe you me, it will; Are you going to pucker up butter cup and give me a kiss (better not in Covid or I might push you.. ha) or are you going to make the most of it? Just add some agave or jaggery, a substitute I recently heard about. Stevia will do and yes, sugar is ok too, and make the most of it. A little sweetness always helps in a bad patch unless you’re a sugar addict of course.

Pucker Up, Buttercup Art Print

If you have ever stubbed your toe or baby finger then you know exactly what I mean.  You never knew a tiny toe could give you so much pain until you stub it.  Or have you ever slept in bed with a mosquito?  

Worse yet, have you suffered a major surgery or gone through an accident or perhaps the worst depression you have ever gone through in your life?

Everyone’s hell is their own and yet everyone wants to compare there’s with their friends and some might not even understand how this could be so bad.  Others feel guilty for it seemingly being so small of an issue and yet, it is putting them through so much purgatory; it’s their truth.  

Hell is Hell ok, and it doesn’t matter what anyone else is going through.

This is precisely why I believe in heaven on earth or hell on earth.  

There is no there. The devil is standing at your door and it’s up to you if you open it or not. If you choose to, take it’s little horns and embrace them and give it a name so you can let go of this little or big devil.

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What you say to yourself matters.

Beating yourself up for having the feelings will keep them omniopressant.

So what to Do, when the devil is knocking on your door?

  1. Give it a face so you can look it in the eye and tell it to leave
    and take your power back.

2. Lock it up and tell it you are sick and tired of this place.

3. Call someone and have a little chat.

4. Go for a walk and bring a leash and you can walk it right out of you or with it at your side. Soon you’ll make peace with this annoying monster. After all, the devil you know is better than the devil you don’t know.

5. Drown the bastard!!! Just blame it on the devil. Hey, the devil made you do it.

This will end and  it is up to you to take good care of yourself daily and ride it out.  Nothing lasts forever.

The best thing I have found when I’m going through hell is to: 

  1. Stop beating myself up.
  2. Do affirmations in the morning and evening everyday.
  3. Trust the process.
  4. Love yourself no matter what.
  5. Get support and reach out!

Hell!!!! It with come and it will go but heaven is a place I want to spend more time, what about you? So make sure you  are with people that can remind you “this too shall pass” encourage you and love you through it.

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Please remember that we all go through these same hellish times and you are not alone. Thanks so much for reading. I know this is a tough time for people and I truly empathize.

Please remember to like (if you do of course), comment and or share. I truly appreciate your support.

With so much ❤️ and Support Always,


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172 thoughts on “If You’re Going Through Hell 👹🔥 Keep Going ðŸ”¥ðŸ‘¹!

      1. so glad this happened. I remember reading all of your posts and liking them. When I have to sign up on email not reader I think it “erases” everything. I don’t know what’s happening to be honest. If you by chance know please lmk … I commented on your beautiful post!!!❤️

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  1. This post was so needed Cindy. Good days are excellent but they are overshadowed even when a day of bad comes. It takes a lot of courage to see that a good day will come. Patience is a virtue in times like these. Everyone struggles on their own and in their own way. Not everyone might know what one had struggled through even when they kept a straight face through all the hardships. A dear friend, maybe a parent, a sibling or someone other than them really help if one can becomes comfortable talking to them. Dogs or animals for that matter help so much. They’ll understand that we are going through a bad time and stick with us in their own annoying way. Haha. Loved the post Cindy. Thank you for sharing. 😇

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    1. Hi Kumar, So glad you enjoyed it. Thanks for sharing your wisdom on the page here. It is so true we need patience and sharing it with others sure helps and of course our beloved animals!!! We deny so of what we are going through often. I had fun writing it but not sure any of the humor was received. Oh well, we try.. lol. Much appreciated and have a great night!!! ❤️ Cindy

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  2. This post had me laughing out loud many times Cindy😆 I’ve always loved that Robert Frost quote and find it to be 100% the way forward is through…not around, over, under or avoidance. It’s best done straight on and through. I literally have this sentence in my resume, “When life gives me lemons I know how to make the best lemonade” I’ve had that in there for years and it always breaks the ice with whomever is interviewing me🤗 Great post Cindy, so much love sister❤❤❤

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    1. Oh YAY!!!! I hoped it would hit someone like that. Yes, he is often. At frist I said through.. whish I fouled up as I put them all together..Lol. Love that one too. So funny I was just interviewed and think I used it or if I didn’t better go and add it.. lol. Happy you laughed and thanks for letting me know Maria!❤️ xo C

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  3. Very helpful post, Cindy. I think all the negatives are causing me insomnia. We all hope for better times! I need to take that walking suggestion to heart. I was happy to read in the comments that you are OK. Every time I hear about the wildfires, I wonder how you are. Stay safe. ❤ Cheryl

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    1. So glad to hear that Cheyrl and see you are back. Oh boy, I’ve been having a harder night sleeping a bit too (shared in on friday is it fun day yet post… lol). I do think it is creating havoc and I’m seeing I have to move with all of this sitting. Thahnks for sharing and glad you liked it. It was fun to write. Awww you are so sweet to think of me an I do hope you are ok as well with the hurricanes. You stay safe as well. ❤️🤗 Cindy


  4. ♡ This is Extreme Prejudice; it’s Crystal Clear Clarity that I Love “Hell” as I Love MySelf, EveryOne and EveryThing, I Find Heaven more than just a Bit Boring with ALL Those Rules, Regulations and What Not 😂🤣😅😆😁😄😃😀🙂


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        ◇ – Diamond Hard – ◇

        ◇ ARE Our PsychoDynamics, InterActions with Others A Cumbersome Burden or A Welcome Relief; does it Matter, the Either/Or 🤔 ?…for Me, Personally, it’s ALL About Looking to My Experience and Being Equitable rather than Equality that means Tit-For-Tat; if I AM Resentful I AM OverCareTaking and if I AM Greedy I Get My Just Desserts…there ARE those things Others Do Better than I Do and vice versa; so, as a Divorced Boy, I Now Accept SHE!!! Expected Far Too Much of Me…ergo, I Dodged a Bullet in a Very Painful Way that is a Lot Less Pain, Death Even, than if I Had Capitulated to HER!!! Demands then Strayed But A Little; so now, I Wait and My Soul Spouse WILL!!! Announce HerSelf and We WILL!!! Enter in to an Equitable and Respectful, Romantic Relationship via Soulful Connection, Our Psychological Synchronisity especially when in DisAgreement and Sexual Compatibility

        nisi mortuus nec neque nolite vicit 🤭🤫🤐

        ◇ – Diamond Hard – ◇



  5. That’s a lovely post Cindy❤️ Thanks as always for sharing your beautiful thoughts🙂. Going through bad times, what my way out to peace is “God” . I just leave it to The Almighty that whatever is happening, is for a reason Of course and I believe the reason and purpose to be always good. And this belief actually keeps you moving. 😊
    Take care

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  6. Thanks Cindy for sharing another insightful post . It is definitely True we go through hell on earth from time to time. Thank God it passes and we also have some blissful days (heaven on earth) .
    It is all a learning experience here on earth school. . I am grateful that I am still here to learn from the good the bad and the ugly . All excellent teachers. .
    Stay well and safe and keep sharing your inspirational wisdom 🥰🧘‍♀️

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    1. You are so welcome Marlene and you are so wise and right. It’s the good days that sustain us and see us through the challening ones.
      I like that,.. Earth School! We are all teachers to each other alright. You stay safe and well and glad you are on the planet and we can share this inspirational connection and wisdome. ❤️🙏❤️🙏❤️🙏❤️🙏


  7. You are right about this… everyone is going to go through some kind of major hit at some time in their life! I have been there and done that already. Your post reminds me of the country song, “If you’re going through hell keep on moving…”
    Great advice. Very hard to do when in the middle of it all!

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    1. I appreciate your insight Dwight. You are so right. It hits us all at different times. Oh, I have to look that song up. Wish I’d have known it, I would have added it. Who’s the singer? My kids LOVE country!!!!! Thanks much and have a
      GREAT day!!! ❤️🤗🙏 Cindy

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      1. Glad to make you laugh!!! 🤣🤣🤣. Made me feel dumb… and laugh too. Next time I have to say. Oh I’m adding my fav country singer to the mix.. Oh, yours too.. wild… lol🤣🤪

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  8. I couldn’t agree more! It’s what we make of it… I try to create as much heaven as possible but I find I’m far better at creating a lot of hell! 😉 I’m trying to work on that… 😂

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  9. Lot’s of wisdom in this pep talk, Cindy, and delivered with a helping of humor. 🙂 This is a really hard time and your statement that “What you say to yourself matters” is profoundly true. Great list of things to do to maintain balance and keep stress at bay. 😀

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  10. Incredible words of wisdom I should say. Truly we all go through hell and trying to shove it off as if it’s non existent really solves nothing. Hence trying to seek ways to get past it and improve our condition.
    I loved the homour you added… made the post light and fun.
    Still holding on to “this too shall pass”. It’s like my light at the end of the tunnel💚❤


    1. 2 times in a day… lucky me. Oh I’m so glad you liked it Joel, thank you. We sure do and that’s where things grow legs and take over. Happy you felt the fun in truth which is what I hoped for. Truly grateful for your kind heart and time.. ! ❤️Cindy

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  11. Anyways, I follow you but it seems I’m unable to receive notifications of your post. I’ve checked and it seems there’s nothing wrong but I still can’t receive them. Only way you come into mind is when I see your comments on other people’s posts. If you could help me fix it please do.

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    1. Oh Joel, that would be ashame to miss your posts and I appreciate your kind comments. This happens to me too. Did you just make another lovely comment to me that I don’t see now on my recent post? Kiss the page.. I’ll check but I’m sure you’re not in my spam.. Am I in yours. Lmk if you’ve heard from me lately as well. ❤️🤗Cindy

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      1. You’re not in my spam.
        I don’t know why WP does this. I’ve been having trouble receiving notifications from you and some other bloggers I follow. It sucks!
        I don’t know how to fix it💔

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      2. Oh good! You’re not in mine either. I know and sometimes I like some posts and then they aren’t marked and I have to go back later. It takes so much time as it is. It is so frustrating! ❤️ 🐯 grrrr

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  12. Very well written, Cindy…it’s crazy relatable…I’ve my share of heaven & hell…both exist within me…created by me…could be due to my sickness, circumstances…though, I’m a strong believer of whatever happens, it happens for a reason…even hell is a good teacher…mentor…telling me to act/react differently…sometimes I can…sometimes, I can’t….does it makes any sense?….thanks for a lovely sharing.

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    1. I really appreciate your thoughts and sharing Navin. Yes, it makes perfect sense to those of us who have been there, like you have and I most certainly have. Hell is a great teacher, you are soooo right. I do think it gets easier navigating and moving to heaven quicker with practice. But hey, we can’t know heaven unless we’ve been to hell right?! ❤️

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      1. You’ve so much power in your words….I could already sense from the energy….somehow….now this is stuck in my head….”But hey, we can’t know heaven unless we’ve been to hell right?!” ✨

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    1. Why Thank you so much!!! I just found you in spam.. ugh… but we should be good now!!! I’m so glad you liked it and my writing! Ae we following each other? Be well and take good care! ❤️ Cindy


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