Hey My Friends,
Happy Friday where we always try to put the Yay in the day!
Don’t let a few Bad Apple Ruin your Friday!
So, If you’re not my friend you can go now. It’s Friday and we are here to celebrate the day. You know who you are. Luckily there are only a few of those that enter your page ready to battle.
It could drive you crazy if you let it and has me at times if I’m honest, but there’s no sense to focus on the few bad apples. Especially when there is the spam, trash, report to W.P. Button and Block. Use it. It’s irking and unsettling but it happens. It’s always sad for me because I hold WP as a sacred spot where I share my inner truths honesty and authenticity but it’s a good chance to remember that the only person we can control is ourself and our reaction to the situation. So rant, rave and forgive as it only festers inside of us, which isn’t good for our physical or mental health.
If we can learn to shake our head, shake it off, laugh and walk away, we’re doing something right in world.
Do we like it? Usually not so much unless you are one that thrives on drama and combat which is just what they are looking for. So, if you want to have a full on war, have at it but I would highly advise against it. These people aren’t worth your time and the real spammers and hackers are one’s I want to avoid at all costs.
Classy, flashy, sassy and some downright Trashy
Young, old, stories to be told others ready to fold.
Most want to be your friend and then we have our spammers
and hackers that drive us all crazy
Smiles, through the miles
sharing hopes and dreams, laughing till I pee
Tears stain my page hearing of our friends sorrows, facing the fragility of life
but we’re here to lend an ear.
The demons eat others alive by physical or mental dis-ease
We learn to to suspend all judgement because by the grace of God goes us.
No one knows where anyone’s walked that influences their words so freely expressed
Lighting our page or at times leaving us enraged.
Trials and tribulations so lovingly and tenderly felt
others freely spewing their venom which is thankfully seldom.
Exciting news delivered as we celebrate
our strengths, milestones and joy supporting each other in all of our endeavors.
Others throw daggers, and go for the jugular, incite fear, hate and violence
speaking fake news and telling lies.
Consider the source. my mom always said; bullies will be bullies so best to Move On
Eventually their true colors will be seen and the truth will be revealed.
It always makes me sad that our page has been tinged and discolored with ugliness and hatred.
Just walk away my friend and get out of the fire, you can’t argue with the devil himself.
This is the life of a blogger which can be love at first site
Sending you to heaven or hell, if you let it.
So don’t let a few bad apples ruin your day!
Keep your friends close and your enemies closer
Ask for Gods grace and remember
truth always prevails .
And we didn’t even bring up the mechanical WP ISSUES. Lol.
I’ve been saving all the funny, not so funny and questionable comments I receive but can’t find them at the moment but at some point I may do a post on it.
In the meantime here is a comment I received this week. I’m truly not sure what I even liked or didn’t like as I don’t remember this post or who this even is or what this person is talking about.
Message: Cindy Georgakas liked your post 5307
I DON’T RECALL WRITING SUCH A POST FOR YOU TO LIKE. IF YOU ARE A HACKER — FUCK OFF AND LEAVE ME ALONE.
Wow, this was very jarring and hurtful.
Did I say something to offend you?
I truly am taken back.
I am not a hacker if you have checked out my site, you would know that.
From Them: (take note, how not to win friends and influence people… lol)
Unique Times– I’ve had hacking and stalker issues .. and I never wrote a post called “5307”. (oddly — the notification of you liking it is no longer there –funny eh) So not sorry — if you were jarred. If you are a hacker or a stalker — piss off. Don’t know how you could have liked something I didn’t write and doesn’t exist on my page — so yah — mission accomplished. So yes you offended me by managing to show up in a notification about something I didn’t write. That offends me — that actually scares me — how do I know that you are the person behind your picture — you could be anyone for all I know — so play the victim — and move along. Go stalk and freak someone else out. DO NOT REPLY. I JUST WANTED TO MAKE MYSELF CLEAR — I unfollowed you — please do the same with me. I don’t like gremlins in my computer — and you wouldn’t either — no need to apologize or try to explain — or deny or what ever – you just need to not reply. Capiche? Not your fault if you are truly innocent — however — I am sure you will be able to live with out reading my random ravings …. any decent human being would understand.
Have you gotten comments like these and what do you do about it?
Do you drop it or respond?
I dropped it and moved on or did I since I’m sharing it here but I just had to get it off my chest. In retrospect, I shouldn’t have responded at all or I could have left my hurt feelings out and just said I don’t know what comment you are referring to and left it at that or not responded at all.
Thanks for visiting and may you always have more good apples than bad. Remember the bad get bruised, are miserable and toxic so stay away and keep your chin up. And please remember in a world that has so many atrocities, let’s remember to take the high road, preserve the sacred ground we have built in our community with each other and be kind.
Don’t take anything personal and have a great weekend!