Today I want to talk to you about time. Time matters. There is nothing I like more that to gaze into the sunset, write poetry, chat with all of you in our comments and my friends and family live in the flesh, dabble in photos, read a book, hike, turn off the clock etc. You get the idea…. If I can find a job that pays to do just that, then sign me up.
If you like me and most the world are anything like me we have a finite amount of time and how we use it to keep our sanity and joy, matters!
To create the life of your dreams this is a big one so you aren’t a slave to time but time is you friend that can free you up to do what you love, then more power to you! Let’s face it, creativity takes time to let your mind wander and pander so that those juicy moments gel into something you want but if you get caught in perfection on every detail and get swept away by everyones whims, you will get no where. I am a pieces which means I’d much rather be swimming and living with rose colored glasses but I’ve learned to do the things I love require using time as a way to free me up rather than pin me down. Also, I’d be lying if I didn’t point out one teaches most what they need to learn and this is a moment to moment learning in process for me.
So for all of you swimmers of the sea and ethereal beings here are some practical tips I’ve learned.
TIPS ON TIME:
Say Yes to what you really want to do:
This keeps your vision of focus on what you love and feeds your soul so it’s really important to keep this fore front in your mind.
Say No when you can’t fit it in: It frees you up and you stop using mental brain space in your head
None of us like saying no but every-time you say yes to something you don’t want to do, you say NO to you and it robs you of your own inner peace. I’m so grateful to everyone of you who have written a review on my book and continue to do so and I want to return the favor, I really do. Right now I’m just trying to stay afloat with my client load, posts, marketing, moving back in, babies coming soon and friends and family. I have to prioritize like you what I really can do verses all I want to do like you should as well. I want to read every book with my TBR’s calling out to read them but I am taking one at a time because that’s all I can do at the moment.
Set your timer when writing, meditating, exercising
While this might feel contrived at first, it will save you in the long run. Try it and practice with it until it feels comfortable.
Develop a 3rd Eye on your priorities and what takes you away from them:
This is really important so that you have your goals in mind and don’t fritter your time away. I know I’d much prefer mindless searching for things than get to the task at hand.
Schedule your fun time and desert for those yummy times guilt free
Take pictures on your own for your blog posts: Scanning for the “perfect picture” can take hours… trust me! Pictures are important to me and I can’t tell you how much time I’ve wasted on searching. Now if this is my scheduled off time then great but it can put lots of pressure when I really am on a time schedule.
Learn Good Enough is Good Enough
Keep your comments in your blog to a minimum unless you have all the time in the world.
I know it’s important when building your platform and I love to interact with people and I’ll be the first to admit that I spend way too much time commenting but its important to me and I love it. I am trying to just comment on one post rather than all of them for those that post multiple times a day.
Limit your social media I know how important it is is sharing your word and building your platform but guys, you will go crazy trying to stay on top of every moment even if you have someone who helps you with that. It can be all time consuming if you let it. Again, schedule that in.
Schedule your posts or writing and the time you can afford to spend to avoid the pressure. Sometimes like today, I’m just too tired to schedule it and need the extra sleep. It also keeps might writing succinct and it’s good practice to write off the cuff. I will warn you that you will make mistakes which I loath but it’s a trade off.
MAKE TIME WORK FOR YOU!
So with that I’ve got lots more to say but I’m off to the races cuz I’m out of time and my timer went off.
A quick thank you to Mich for her incredible review of my book which truly touched me so deeply. And congratulations to her for her poem being nominated for Popular Demand for Publication of The Month of June on Spillwords.
I also wanted to take this opportunity to thank Selma for sharing her thoughts and favourite quotes from my book. I am so thankful!
I’ll be back Fri-Yay to share their fun reviews and reels as well as to some more fun which I never know what that might be from one day to the next around here.
Have a wonderful day and lots of love with the time you deserve to make your moments meaningful in everything you do. Please remember if you liked this video, please subscribe to my YouTube channel!
Love your tips, Cindy! A few years ago I set a timer in Facebook to an hour and not long after discovered I was on it far less than one hour a day! Ha! It works!
I am on all other social media less than an hour a week, except WordPress.
Glad to know Sheila❣️. That’s awesome to Dawn! I know WP our fav with our friends.. it’s a tough one. Thanks for your thoughts.💞💞
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petespringerauthor
2 months ago
Retirement has been nothing like I imagined. I’m busy all the time, which means I have learned to be more efficient. I also was the type of person who couldn’t say no during my career, but I’ve finally learned not to try and be Superman. Part of that includes saying no to others, but as much of that is directed at myself. I treat time like the precious commodity that it is. It makes me feel better about myself when I have the self-discipline to stay focused.
One of your ideas that registered with me the most is taking our own pictures. Yes, I’ve wasted too much time, trying to find the perfect photo online and then getting distracted by other things.
Oh my Pete, I can totally see that being the case. I think that happens for those of us who love life and the plate of so many offerings. good for you “I’ve finally learned not to try and be Superman”.👏👏👏
It’s not easy to retire your cape. I’m impressed. Love it.
Oh good. I’m liking doing that when I remember and then to be able to find them is another thing.. 🥹🥹😂🙏🏼💞 Thanks for weighing in!
And Sure A Golden Age of Poetry That Too Yet i Would
Not Trade All the Money
MaKinG in the
World For
The Freedom i Have
Now Plus if You Down Size
Enough the Money Just Tends
to Grow in the Bank Like Mold
Next Thing You Know You’ve Both
Killed All the Deadlines Associated
With Time And Time Works for You free in the
Background Unnoticed Till the Financial Reports Come in hehe
Yet You See There Are No Million Dollar Homes Where i Live
Rising
Yet Still
Reasonably
Free So Much is
in the ‘Location’
of the ‘Location’ of Time Now…
And There Are Limitless Ways
To Serve Others Free That Just
Brings in More Positivity Breeze…
In Short i Do Suggest
You continue to Truly
Free
Your
SoUL
With SMiLes…
A Most Important LeSSoN
i’ve LEarned iN Life Import Comes From WiTHiN
Indeed Inherited From my Mother As Well Best LeSSoN to Be i Am…
Other than That Tomorrow the ‘Rich Paternal Side’ of my Family is Throwing me a
Late June Birthday Party in Their Mansion on the Emerald Gulf Coast Dream Oh Dear
Lord Such a Difference in the Sides of my Family i’ve Seen in my Life
So Fortunate
My Mother’s
Dream is the
One i Truly Live Free..:)
love this Fred and I might borrow this title if its ok with you? “Irons in the Fire of Time”. love that. Tell my husband about down sizing.. it didn’t fly with him.. lol.
oh how fun to have a wonderful birthday party.. fun stuff. Enjoy every minute! 💞💗💗💗
And I do wonder where the inspiration came from.. 😂 Wise woman maybe?❣️❣️❣️ Glad you enjoyed it and yes, to the reviews. I’m waiting on yours.. 😂😂😂 xo truly teasing
Thanks so much Mich!
I’m so glad you liked my tips. I so agree we sure have a lot to bombard us right now is right!
I’m so grateful! Thanks again for making my day and your kind review!!!
Awww you’re welcome 💕😘
The interpretation of time is different for everyone. I can imagine someone like Elon Musk who rides above the tide, thinks he is the master of time which is amazing because he is so confident of his abilities. For some people, time is never on their side. And then there are those who like to go with the flow. I think time runs on its own path and we are just people who try to find our path around it.
Have a great day, Cindy. 🌻
You’re so right Ranjana. It’s also age a stage, meaning how old you are, what you are embarking on. Going with the flow is ultimately what we have to do. Thanks for your contribution! You have a great one too!💕
I rarely have enough time for allusions and illusions that pop into mind; can’t look up song credits: ‘tick-a-tick-a … timing– whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa…” || “Time, time, time is on my side, yes it is…” [ear worms], and for the nihilist philosophers, time is not an illusion — time is the counting of events and the choosing of boundaries. As someone once said, “Time is a rapist: it screws with all of us. Just say no.” This all needs edits and, and, and……nevermind
You make me laugh Doug and I always love your comments and this is no exception…
“time is the counting of events and the choosing of boundaries. As someone once said, “Time is a rapist: it screws with all of us.”
🥹😂😂❤️ Thanks a lot!
You are doing better than me dear Cindy, I’m probably months behind. Lots to catch up on, truly yikes haha… But still excited to read from everyone. Xoxo 💗
Oh wow Cindy, you offered some great tips on time. ⏰ Very doable and timely, no pun intended. I love your reference on mindfulness. 🙏🏼 Very important tips, so thank you my friend for sharing dawwwwlinkkkkk!
Hi Cindy, you are correct that time has to be prioritised other wise we can waste it or become overwhelmed trying to do to much. Congratulations on another lovely review.
Absolutely Robbie… such a balancing act always! Thanks so very much!!
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Curtis Mekemson
2 months ago
Have to agree, Cindy. For most of my life, I have been in control of my own time by either working on my own or being the “boss.” One thing I learned is the more time you have to control, the more important planning is. As much as possible I try to focus on things that are important to me, and I would add, Peggy. 🙂
Nice tips on time management Cindy. Great advice especially the ones of scheduling time on yummy moments😂😂, I am a slave to food haha. Anyways, this is very true especially the part of saying YES on the things you really want to do which for me it is blogging, listening to music whilst I write my mens fashion & style blogs because it helps unlock the creative juices🙌
I totally need to remember your advice on saying yes to things you don’t want/don’t have time to do! I use my timer a LOT…especially when I have a long to-do list and only want to curl up and read. Timer goes off…work the list. Timer goes off, read the book. Repeat through the day, its amazing how much you can get done on both! 💞💞💞
Great tips. I love that it’s so easy to set timers on my iPhone.
Thanks Jacqui.. I so agree! 💞
scheduling social media posts in advance is a great idea. I definitely waste far too much time there
I so agree.. now if I can ever do it.. lol. Thanks for weighing in! ❣️
Really awesome tips on time management 👌
Time is precious and shouldn’t be wasted ✨️
Wow, I really loved this! So Awesome, My Dear!!!
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Thanks Chuck❣️ Good to see you! 💞
Thank you many of my thoughts
Great video, Cindy, when I log into YouTube I will subscribe. Have a great day.
Thanks so much Tangie❣️❣️. Much appreciated.. Now I have to remember to check it.. lol. You do the same! 💞
Wonderful , Cindy. Great advice. Love it.💕
Thanks a lot, Grace. So happy to hear that! 💞🙏🏼
My pleasure 💕
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Thank you for sharing these wonderful words…. a much enjoyed read🙏🤍✨
So happy to know you liked it Destiny❣️. You’re welcome and TY! xo 💞💞💗💗
always a pleasure 🤍
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Love your tips, Cindy! A few years ago I set a timer in Facebook to an hour and not long after discovered I was on it far less than one hour a day! Ha! It works!
I am on all other social media less than an hour a week, except WordPress.
Glad to know Sheila❣️. That’s awesome to Dawn! I know WP our fav with our friends.. it’s a tough one. Thanks for your thoughts.💞💞
Retirement has been nothing like I imagined. I’m busy all the time, which means I have learned to be more efficient. I also was the type of person who couldn’t say no during my career, but I’ve finally learned not to try and be Superman. Part of that includes saying no to others, but as much of that is directed at myself. I treat time like the precious commodity that it is. It makes me feel better about myself when I have the self-discipline to stay focused.
One of your ideas that registered with me the most is taking our own pictures. Yes, I’ve wasted too much time, trying to find the perfect photo online and then getting distracted by other things.
Oh my Pete, I can totally see that being the case. I think that happens for those of us who love life and the plate of so many offerings. good for you “I’ve finally learned not to try and be Superman”.👏👏👏
It’s not easy to retire your cape. I’m impressed. Love it.
Oh good. I’m liking doing that when I remember and then to be able to find them is another thing.. 🥹🥹😂🙏🏼💞 Thanks for weighing in!
Splendid post Cindy and bang on tips!
Thanks a lot Francis. Glad you thought so❣️❣️🙏🏼
You’re very welcome Cindy! All the best.
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“…then sign me up” – and i case you need a coworker, here I am 🙂
😂 🙏🏼 Yes, to that Fredrick! I’m ready when you are.. 💗 Have a great day!
Indeed Dear Cindy from Easy Empirical Measure
You Do Have A Lot of Irons in the Fire of Time
Hehe Secret to my Success of Killing Time
Just Dance And Sing
Most Importantly
First Leave the Money
MaKinG Behind So Easy
To Do if You Down Size
Enough to Do it With
SMiLes my Mother
Did it on 500 Dollars
A Month Even Refusing
Any Supplements to that
Meager Social Security Income
Key is She Did All the Free Activities
That Made Her Feel Naked Enough Whole Complete
And Sure A Golden Age of Poetry That Too Yet i Would
Not Trade All the Money
MaKinG in the
World For
The Freedom i Have
Now Plus if You Down Size
Enough the Money Just Tends
to Grow in the Bank Like Mold
Next Thing You Know You’ve Both
Killed All the Deadlines Associated
With Time And Time Works for You free in the
Background Unnoticed Till the Financial Reports Come in hehe
Yet You See There Are No Million Dollar Homes Where i Live
Rising
Yet Still
Reasonably
Free So Much is
in the ‘Location’
of the ‘Location’ of Time Now…
And There Are Limitless Ways
To Serve Others Free That Just
Brings in More Positivity Breeze…
In Short i Do Suggest
You continue to Truly
Free
Your
SoUL
With SMiLes…
A Most Important LeSSoN
i’ve LEarned iN Life Import Comes From WiTHiN
Indeed Inherited From my Mother As Well Best LeSSoN to Be i Am…
Other than That Tomorrow the ‘Rich Paternal Side’ of my Family is Throwing me a
Late June Birthday Party in Their Mansion on the Emerald Gulf Coast Dream Oh Dear
Lord Such a Difference in the Sides of my Family i’ve Seen in my Life
So Fortunate
My Mother’s
Dream is the
One i Truly Live Free..:)
love this Fred and I might borrow this title if its ok with you? “Irons in the Fire of Time”. love that. Tell my husband about down sizing.. it didn’t fly with him.. lol.
oh how fun to have a wonderful birthday party.. fun stuff. Enjoy every minute! 💞💗💗💗
Great video and post!! Thanks for sharing! ❤️🙏🌹
Glad you liked it Giada❣️. Thanks my friend🙏🏼💗
Time can quickly get away from us! Vital tips for health and balance. ✨🙏🏻 I wear my timer out! 😆 It’s my phone but you know what I mean. 😁
It’s so true and glad you liked my tips. Oh no, we can’t wear the timer out.. what will we do.. lol ❤️😂 Thanks my dear Michele! ❣️💞
You are welcome! 😊💗🙏🏻
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Wise tips, Cindy, and I enjoyed the video! Congrats on all the wonderful reviews coming in, too! ❤️
Glad you thought so Lauren!! Thanks I was very pleased as well!!! 💕❤️💕
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And I do wonder where the inspiration came from.. 😂 Wise woman maybe?❣️❣️❣️ Glad you enjoyed it and yes, to the reviews. I’m waiting on yours.. 😂😂😂 xo truly teasing
Haha! I’m waiting on yours, too! 😉 And I’ll start your book this weekend. Looking forward to it! Happy Thursday, dear friend. 🩷🎉🌷😁🤣🌼🥂
I know.. hahahahhaha. I’m gonna try to read 4 at once .. interesting review it will be. You too Lauren.. hugs my friend 🤗🤗🤗🤗
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This is a truly uplifting posf Cindy. The tips you’ve share are exactly what we need right now; with all the chaos around.
Reading and reviewing your book was a pleasure, it was fun.
Thank you for writing it. We need more books like this.
Thanks so much Mich!
I’m so glad you liked my tips. I so agree we sure have a lot to bombard us right now is right!
I’m so grateful! Thanks again for making my day and your kind review!!!
Awww you’re welcome 💕😘
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This is a uplifting and useful post
Especially for younger generation.
I will watch the video later peacefully.
Thanks Devang!
Glad you found it useful.
Hope you like it!
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The interpretation of time is different for everyone. I can imagine someone like Elon Musk who rides above the tide, thinks he is the master of time which is amazing because he is so confident of his abilities. For some people, time is never on their side. And then there are those who like to go with the flow. I think time runs on its own path and we are just people who try to find our path around it.
Have a great day, Cindy. 🌻
You’re so right Ranjana. It’s also age a stage, meaning how old you are, what you are embarking on. Going with the flow is ultimately what we have to do. Thanks for your contribution! You have a great one too!💕
Time management is a very difficult task. I get involved with so many things at once and then cry
It sure is and you know I was writing this post doing 10 things.. lol. I feel ya and miss you!
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I miss you too. Let’s catchup soon. I texted you in the morning. These days I am chilling watching a tv series. Rather binge watching😂🥹
Alrighty I’ll look!! Good timing this upcoming week!!💕
Yeah cool. I have texted you the questions as well
Thanks Cindy for these awesome tips. I’ve saved you post so that I can remind myself frequently.
Glad you enjoyed them Sadje and thanks for letting me know. Happy to hear that! 💗
You’re most welcome my dear friend
Much appreciated!
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So glad to hear that Sadje!❣️❣️ Much appreciated my friend💞💞💞
It’s always a pleasure
Thanks dearest!💕
I rarely have enough time for allusions and illusions that pop into mind; can’t look up song credits: ‘tick-a-tick-a … timing– whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa…” || “Time, time, time is on my side, yes it is…” [ear worms], and for the nihilist philosophers, time is not an illusion — time is the counting of events and the choosing of boundaries. As someone once said, “Time is a rapist: it screws with all of us. Just say no.” This all needs edits and, and, and……nevermind
You make me laugh Doug and I always love your comments and this is no exception…
“time is the counting of events and the choosing of boundaries. As someone once said, “Time is a rapist: it screws with all of us.”
🥹😂😂❤️ Thanks a lot!
Wonderful post Cindy. Enjoy the rest of your day.
Thank you so very much Gabriela! ❣️
My pleasure hon.
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Thanks Gabriela! You do the same!!!! 💞💗💞
Great tips dear Cindy, thank you for always sharing your wisdom with us. 💗💗
Oh dearest Daphny… you’re back. So happy to see that. Did you post? You’re welcome and soooo elated to see you safe and sound💞💞💞
Thanks❣️
Yes I’m back, actually I have been posting but barely active and reading other post but I’ll be more active from now. ☺️❤️
well I’ll head over later.. i’m 2 days behind so you know what that means.. 4 post from each person to respond too.. yikes.. xo 💗
You are doing better than me dear Cindy, I’m probably months behind. Lots to catch up on, truly yikes haha… But still excited to read from everyone. Xoxo 💗
💕❤️🙏💕for sure but together we’ll get there!!💕
Yes that we surely will ❤❤❤❤
Awwwww you’re so welcome and thanks Daph! I’m so happy you are safe and sound and back💗🙏🏼💗🙏🏼
You’re welcome Cindy! I’m glad to be back as well. 😁❤️
oh I’m soooo happy! 💗💗💗💗
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Awesome 😎
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Some great words of advice here, Cindy 🙏
Thanks Ingrid!🙏
Oh wow Cindy, you offered some great tips on time. ⏰ Very doable and timely, no pun intended. I love your reference on mindfulness. 🙏🏼 Very important tips, so thank you my friend for sharing dawwwwlinkkkkk!
Glad you liked this one Lym! Of course we teach what we need to learn most!!! Haha! They are important to follow tho. Happy FriYay dear!!! Dawwwlink 💕
I did like it Cindy my dear, and I see you have given me a new name, Lym??? LOL I don’t know if I should dare ask! 😂😜🤣 Anywho…Happy FUNyay Friday!!! 🥳
Hi Cindy, you are correct that time has to be prioritised other wise we can waste it or become overwhelmed trying to do to much. Congratulations on another lovely review.
Absolutely Robbie… such a balancing act always! Thanks so very much!!
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Have to agree, Cindy. For most of my life, I have been in control of my own time by either working on my own or being the “boss.” One thing I learned is the more time you have to control, the more important planning is. As much as possible I try to focus on things that are important to me, and I would add, Peggy. 🙂
Thanks for sharing such a great post. I like the “limit social media …”
Nice
Splendid and excellent post Cindy. Thank you for sharing your insights and thoughts. Loved reading your post.
Thanks so much Kamal. I’m happy to know this! ❤️
You are always welcome dear Cindy 💖🙏🏻💖
Thank you my friend! 💞
Welcome always 💖🙏🏻💖
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Great tips, Cindy! I love them. As regards timer, I resonate with you. Social media act like addiction. Some checks and balances are necessary.💕💕
Thanks Dearest KK. So happy to hear that~! Yes, we have to do something to stay sane!
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So true, Cindy! You’re welcome, always 🙏💐
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Thanks for the tips Cindy. I loved it .
Have a great weekend 😄
You’re so welcome Maria! Thanks for checking in.. it’s good to see you❣️❣️❣️❣️
Anytime 🥰🎀
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Thanks for these wonderful tips and reminders Cindy. Life is short, we have to focus on what’s most important to us. <3
Nice tips on time management Cindy. Great advice especially the ones of scheduling time on yummy moments😂😂, I am a slave to food haha. Anyways, this is very true especially the part of saying YES on the things you really want to do which for me it is blogging, listening to music whilst I write my mens fashion & style blogs because it helps unlock the creative juices🙌
I totally need to remember your advice on saying yes to things you don’t want/don’t have time to do! I use my timer a LOT…especially when I have a long to-do list and only want to curl up and read. Timer goes off…work the list. Timer goes off, read the book. Repeat through the day, its amazing how much you can get done on both! 💞💞💞
Love that you do this and we all need practice. Once you say no, it’s so liberating! 💕
Thanks Dawn!
Insightful
Thanks a lot.. ❤️❤️
Thank you for sharing! I agree setting your priorities and making time for what is important to us is such a good thing!
pleasure and thanks for your comment so true❣️
Time after time ⏲️ 😌 😴 😁
Great tips I love this